What would happen if even one generation were raised with respect?
Trusting that their viewpoint, their experience matters?
That their cries will be heard?
That they will be held, and supported in finding solutions?
Ditch the fear.
They will learn.
Shaming, blaming or withdrawing from them won't accelerate their learning.
It won't teach them what you want them to learn.
It will teach them that your love is conditional.
Drop the idea that discipline and punishment are inte...